“I’ve gotten a lot of signs about Montana lately. I wanted to be there for a long time, and when I moved back from Boise, ID to live with my aunt, I gave up the dream. Am I moving soon to Montana soon? (Insert Frank Zappa tune here. Me and the pigmy ponies.) Ha! Thanks!” -Libby
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Libby…right now, you’re carrying too much to start doing what you need to do in order to move. Financial, emotional, functionally, you’re not in position to start making those “little steps” that pull it together, that you can find synchronicity and gifts and the roadsigns that help speed you along the path.
Doesn’t mean you can’t. But before I see it happening, you need a shift. You can start the shift by detaching emotionally from the outcomes of the people around you. Not that you can’t help. There’s nothing wrong with helping. It’s kind and generous and sometimes, just right, you know? But if you remain on the hook for their lives, you don’t have option to just live your own. Because there is always crisis, always needs, always something around you that takes precedence for you. Each one of these concerns is a tie that keeps you where you are.
Start emotionally distancing some from the anchors you have here, now, and you shift into the flow directed where you want to go. That’s where I would begin.
Good luck!
See anything different here?
